The Life of the Party starring Melissa McCarthy was a little wild and even a tad risqué but enjoyable. In the movie, Deanna (Melissa McCarthy) returns to college to finish out her last year some twenty years after leaving to get married. Her husband abruptly asks for a divorce and she is blindsided. But after brooding, she decides to join her daughter on the campus of her alma mater.
Her daughter Maddie (Molly Gordon) isn’t thrilled with the idea but after she gives her mom a makeover, Deanna begins to blend in and even becomes a valued part of the younger set. Through a host of adventures such as partying, drinking, joining a sorority and even making out with a fraternity brother, she soon forgets her woes as she moves ahead to complete her Archaeology degree.
There were quite a few laughs and there were even some great scenes of revenge when Deanna encounters her ex-husband and his intended. It was a good way to escape into another world and as I was driving home and reflecting on the movie, it dawned on me that there were quite a few similarities to my own life.
At the end of the film, I recalled that my mother and I had also attended college together. She was a senior and I was a freshman. I used to say, “Hi, Ma,” in the hallway. And later, we taught on two of the same college campuses and marched as faculty together.
So, when Deanna and daughter were clothed in their graduation regalia, I was reminded of how fortunate I was to have had such an amazing experience. During this month of honoring our mothers, I pause and recall the lines from a famous gospel song that say, “Precious memories. Oh how they linger!”
Lynn M. May 19, 2018