Have you been naughty or nice in 2020? I know. I know. You think you’re too old to ask yourselves this question, but whether you are 7 or 77, it is still pertinent today! Yes, this year has been a doozy but how do you think you fared? When you think about Santa’s question, it basically refers to how you treated others.
Were you mean or curt in your dealings with others in some instances? Or were you mean or curt with others on several occasions? In this narcissistic, selfie world, did you focus on your needs, your wants and your desires while stepping on others like cobblestones on paved streets? Did you pilfer from others or accept things from others without returning a simple thank you?
Well, if you recognize yourself here, then Santa would label you as being a naughty person. Hmm. That could mean that your gifts might be limited because you unconsciously created some bad karma. You might find yourself crying “Boo- Hoo,” like the Grinch.
Or were you rather nice this year on a few or in several situations? During this ever-reaching pandemic which has touched all points of the globe, did you reach out to others around you? Did you give a comforting phone call or send a text filled with soothing words to hurting family members or friends? Did you share a podcast or a link to some reassuring music to lift someone’s spirit?
Did you add an emoji to share emotions, drop some lines of wisdom or even risk it and hug someone in deep despair? Did you pay a bill or buy groceries for someone less fortunate than you? Did you volunteer at a food pantry when you had nothing else to give but your helping hands?
Well, if you did any of these things, then you conducted acts of kindness and you will indeed fall into the nice category. Yes, your returns will come forth pressed down, shaken together and running over. Your joy will be full because you applied The Golden Rule. You did to others what you would have them do to you. Santa would like that at any age. There is still time to sprinkle in more acts of kindness as you help others and mostly help yourself!
December 19, 2020