Sometimes we must put aside our tribal differences and focus on what’s good for the greater whole. Wayne Dyer often mentioned the whole enchilada in his talks for he realized that a bit here and a bit there rarely makes a meaningful force.
We all harbor hurt feelings or disappointments but ultimately we see that (as one writer wrote), “things don’t just happen; they happen just,” or more pointedly, justly. The Rolling Stones duly reminded us as they sang “You can’t always get what you want, but you get what you need!”
Once we have shaken off the dust of dark, error thoughts, we thank our lucky stars that we were saved from the glittery, metallic doom that we had in view. We could not see the thick, wooded forest because we were looking at the beauty of the trees.
But grace reached down and scooped us up and we were saved from a greater harm. We may have emerged from the dangers of the thickets tattered, torn and even somewhat disheveled, but we came out on the other side with clarity of purpose. We walked out of the bush with new arms of wisdom, buckets of strength and oodles of renewed fortitude.
We pause and give thanks. We then delve into loads of self-care as we regather ourselves and regain our rhythm and coordinated moves. When we finally have the nerve to take a close look at our new reflections in the looking glass, we sigh, ‘Okay. A little wear and tear but still in one piece. Not bad. Not too bad.” And then we think of J. Herbert Brewster’s poem, Be Proud of Your Wounds and Scars and know that we earned every wrinkle which equates the rings of the tree!
June 19, 2021